Soul-Care Tips For Christian Entrepreneurs

Self-care is not some buzz-word created to self-indulge and neglect our responsibilities. It is actually very crucial to living an intentional healthy mental and spiritual life. Whether you’re a side hustler or full time entrepreneur, you have a unique set of challenges. You are overwhelmed, tired and frustrated. Which is why carving out time for self-care, or more importantly, soul-care, shall be crucial to creating a sustainable lifestyle long-term. Don't spend so much time in your business that you neglect the most important part of your business: YOURSELF! Here are five ways to master self-care.

Make Time For God

You can’t effectively pour yourself out in service of others if your well is dry. The only way to stay refreshed and replenished is to draw from God’s well, that never runs dry. You do this with intentional, uninterrupted, consistent time with God. This is your war room room. This is your time of arming yourself. This is your time for bathing in God’s love. This is your time for receiving from God. This is your time to loving ON God. Don't ever become so busy that you neglect time alone with God through prayer, and Bible reading. You get to determine what that looks like, however just make sure it is disciplined, un-rushed and meaningful. Stay tuned for devotionals for the "busy entrepreneur".

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Know Your Triggers

We are destroying speculations and every lofty thing raised up against the knowledge of God, and we are taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ. -2 Corinthians 10:5

I am a fan of getting to the source. My long term strategy is to treat the ailment on its deepest level rather than placing band-aids on gapping wounds. With that being said, self-care is the remedy to what may be a deeper issue: your triggers. Are you stressed? Why are you stressed? Are you anxious? Why are you anxious? What fears are keeping your thought life captive? What patterns of thoughts are you believing that are contrary to what God says? Get to the bottom of what may be robbing you of your peace, joy and mental health. Once that part is done, you can create an action plan to combat all those barriers.

Start Where You Are At

It may sound strange, but some of us are not used to relaxing. If this is true for you, give yourself grace and slowly integrate self care practices into your lifestyle. This does not have to be an entire day and does not requires hundred of dollars on luxurious experience. It could be glimpses of a day and economical indulges. For example try: 

  • Reading a non-business book

  • DIY mani/pedi date

  • Having a candle-lit bath

  • Watching a comedy

  • Journaling

  • Talking on the phone with your bestie

Physical Wellness

Now that you have prioritized your spiritual retreat time, it is time to strategize your physical wellness plan. The second best way to care for yourself is through exercise, great sleep and healthy eating. Your hours are long and you need the fuel that this trifecta will bring you. I know you're busy, however there are plenty of resources out there that accommodate the busy boss. In regards to healthy eating, whether you choose to cook or budget your meals outside of your home, just make sure they are nutritional and feed your body what it needs. In regards to physical activity, there are EFFECTIVE routines that cost you a smooth 15-30 minutes. (If you don't have 30 minutes to commit to your health, we have a deeper issue.) Lastly in regards to sleep: close the laptop and put away the phone. Business will go on JUST FINE without you in it all day! Put your trust BACK IN GOD’S HAND to lead and watch over your business so that you can rest REST! I can’t say how many hours are necessary for your body, just make sure that it is a quality amount. Because listen whoever said “I will sleep when I’m dead”, is a FULL ON fool. Get your sleep sis.

Ask For Help

This is hard for me. I tend to take on the entire world, become overwhelmed because duh, I can't do it all. I then either give up or procrastinate which then exasperates my stress levels. Just a vicious cycle of heightened cortisol levels.  If you've been trying to do it all, it might be time for help. I'm not suggesting hiring an entire workforce. That might just be hiring an intern part-time, or a virtual assistant. Support may also come in the form of a business bestie or a peer group. It also maybe time to invest in a business coach whose sole purpose it to help you gain clarity and strategy for how to scale your business. I know how hard it is to release control and have someone working alongside you, but you have to realize you need the help. Ask God for the direction needed to make a wise decision with bringing on additional help. Ask for someone with integrity, is coachable, committed and more than qualified to do the job.

Lastly do not feel bad for taking time out for yourself. You can’t fully show up for folks when your tank is on EMPTY. Even The Lord retreated when necessary. You've heard it before: The key is not to prioritize what's on your schedule, but to schedule your priorities. Be sure to prioritize your self-care.

Let me know how do you take time out for yourself?

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How To Not Hate Mondays

Ugh, another case of the Monday Blues where you dragged yourself into the office. You know those feelings of dread, anxiety and regret. We spend week after week dreading this day, as if we are unaware it will come around quicker than we know. Listen I get it, Mondays kind of represent the end of our fun life and the beginning of adulting, pointless emails, horrible bosses and endless responsibilities. There is one thing about receiving tips from folks who are out here living the dream. It's easier for you to spend an hour meditating before work when you have the freedom to do so sis. However, there is another to receive insight from someone IN THE TRENCHES with you. Here’s a few practical hacks to help begin the process of shifting your mindsets and appreciating every day of the week, even Monday. 

1. Be Thankful

Every day is a gift. Even as an entrepreneur, there are no perfect days. A thankful mindset says I will be content regardless of what life looks like. My happiness is not predicated by what I have, do and experience. Difficult, yes. Choosing to change your perspective takes dedication and time. It’s no wonder that most successful entrepreneurs discipline themselves to practice some sort of thankfulness. Maybe that looks like spending 5-10 minutes writing or thinking of 3 things you can be grateful for. 

2. Create a Morning Ritual

If routine to you sounds unrealistic because you have children and you barely make it out the door, just hear me out. What I want you to consider is what you’ll gain when you intentionally set time for yourself before responsibility consumes your day. Starting out, if all you have is 30 minutes, be proactive and intentional with your morning. Create a realistic and attainable morning routine, that you can commit to.

3. Have Something To Be Excited For

Aside from creating a realistic morning routine, Maybe that's a dope playlist or even a new outfit or accessory. Or even that extra Grande espresso drink with a mountaintop of whip cream. Load up some tunes, grab an amazing outfit, wear that new lipstick.

4. Guard Your Weekend

It's Smonday again. You know, the time on Sunday evening when you anxiously start counting down how many hours are left until you are back in the office. So how do we stop this cloud from forming during our glorious weekends? Start preparing yourself mentally and emotionally for Monday come Sunday night. I'm all for staying present, however I believe if you are a consistent Monday complainer, this will help create that mental buffer. That includes proper rest, some sort of self care routine and a quality

5. Do Something About It

If you can identify the source of your grievances, then you can have a plan of attack to combat. For most of us, we have no problems with Mondays, it’s that job we have so much disdain for. The real tea is to create the life where Mondays are just another day you slay. What is that dream you've talked yourself out of pursuing? Grab a notebook, get to Uncle Google and Auntie Youtube and begin to research that idea you've told yourself will not work and plan to create the life you deserve. 

Stop misusing Mondays and learn to maximize, as a gift, by courageously changing your mindset. Mondays can represent such a sense of possibilities. For all of us still working for someone else, how do you champion Monday Blues?

5 Business Resolutions For New Entrepreneurs

January represents such a refresh for most of us and that is why I wanted to help you with a few things to consider for your business for this new year. Whatever is working well for you, be sure to double down on that. If you're looking for some new perspectives or tips, then this list of 5 Business Resolutions is for you. 

I Will "Fail" Quickly

As a new business owner you are constantly faced with the fear of failure. As a result, you may find yourself crippled and stuck with inaction. As a new business owner and side hustler, as we develop our rhythm of what works, we have to learn how to pivot quickly so that we can move on to what does work. Don’t invest a lot of energy into trying to make the unworkable workable. Master the cycle of changing and testing. 

I Will Think Like Walmart

Walmart, Amazon, Zappos are well oiled machines that are very self sufficient. One factor is that they have developed systems and know what works and what does not work. If you're just starting out in your business, you are most likely working hard and not primarily wisely all the time. Until you find your sweet spot, you constantly throwing stuff on the wall and seeing what actually sticks. Meaning you are trying strategy after strategy that some expert recommended and hoping it will yield similar results. This is not shade, it is just my observation because I am there with you. What area in your business can you automate? How can you manage your business finances and not mix with your personal? How can you master your customer experience journey? The ultimate goal is to implement processes and solutions that can free up more of my schedule so I have time to work on scaling and growing our business, not just maintaining.

I Will Collaborate

You've seen the hashtag #collaborationovercompetition and I firmly ascribe to that. Don't fall victim to the scarcity and fear mindset that says I cannot make strategic partnerships that are mutually beneficial. Keyword, strategic. Practically speaking how can your product or service help serve someone's audience and vice versa. For example: if you an event planner, consider partnering with someone who specializes in brand sponsorship. You can help their audience plan events and they can help your audience secure sponsorship. Some experts suggest partnering with others with a similar audience sizes, but I don't completely agree. If your collab makes sense, it makes sense regardless of your audience size. Just be sure to build authentic relationships and be clear on your ask.

I Will Serve More

I know how frustrating it can be to pour out, create and receive no immediate results, or results you were anticipating. Try shifting your perspective to give more. It may be tempting to consume more so that you can grow, however I want you to reach out to someone who has less knowledge/experience than you and offer to help them. I believe that when you pour into others, the gratitude you gain is invaluable currency. Be committed to providing value to others whether in a Facebook group, an Instagram post or in a small peer mastermind. 

I Will Create A Routine

Work/life balance will only exist when you prioritize it. Structure is crucial to a successful business owner and you develop that be creating a routine. Just like you create systems that automate, setting up a daily routine will give you the room to work harder, smarter and creatively. Break your day down, loosely. Determine how many hours a day you want to work and commit to that. Be intentional about your day 

These are the 5 strategies and mindsets I'm looking to adapt for this new year. Let me know what are your business resolutions?